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What would you do
jimmy_d 
3/8/08 11:46:54 AM
Overlord

Ok here is my delima. I have been working at a new job for about 4 months. During this time I was aware that my team leader liked me. She is 5' 7" blonde and quite attractive, nice personality ect. I have found out that she likes me. I mean really likes me. She has been texting me heaps and the other night she rang me, and told me how she feels. I have just broken up with someone and that relationship was 5 years of crap.This is a nice distraction. So at the risk of the work place becoming my relationship place. Do I back off or go for it?


Edited by jimmy_d: 3/8/2008 12:57:35 PM

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plebsmacker 
3/8/08 11:48:59 AM
Hero
Immortal


That's one big bitch.

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Give me ambiguity or give me something else

tantryl 
3/8/08 11:49:10 AM
SuperHero
Immortal


Go for it.

But start looking for another job :P

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index680i and the Wii:

Not worth buying at all - 17/6/07
I am pretty wealthy... I am going to Laybuy the console tomozz :D - 23/4/08
Ill be picking up a Nintendo Wii console tomorrow - 17/7/08

As of this post he owns no Wii.

1shot1kill 
3/8/08 11:50:19 AM
SuperHero
Colossus


What tantryl said.

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Harden up, BITCHES!!

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colganaitor 
3/8/08 11:51:33 AM
Master

yepp . . . .don't do it if you intend to keep your job.

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Felipe 
3/8/08 11:51:54 AM
Hero
Guru


I see no dilemma :P


FX.

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Oracle X 
3/8/08 11:59:17 AM
Guru

Bah, she's just using you for sex! If you go for it you will be using her for career advancement!





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Which is perfectly fine really. :-P

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Tom 
3/8/08 11:59:31 AM
Hero
Immortal


Quote by Felipe
I see no dilemma :P




+1

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Homer.Jay 
3/8/08 12:00:13 PM
Journeyman

yep i agree with tantryl and 1shot. If or when you break up, that will be one very uncomfortable place to work, and if its a bad break up (not that any are good) and she's pissed off at you and out ranks you, watch out!!.

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Sinnister 
3/8/08 12:02:52 PM
Overlord

i dont see a problem at all!

can we see a pic of her? :)

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Genisis X 
3/8/08 12:09:55 PM
Guru

Hit it!

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jimmy_d 
3/8/08 12:55:48 PM
Overlord

Thanks guys. Now if I could only get all the fun bits and leave the rest. Well I spose I have a decision to make hey. Crap wish it was an easy one. Want my job and want boobies.

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Scratch 
3/8/08 1:00:08 PM
Serf

What's the worst that could come from it?

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tantryl 
3/8/08 1:18:52 PM
SuperHero
Immortal


Quote by Scratch
What's the worst that could come from it?



She could talk to the higher ups in a casually derogatory way, get them to lose confidence in him, give him all the shitty jobs that no-one else will do, give him bad reference to make it hard to get another job, pressure him in the workplace to do things he doesn't want to...

Like I said, if you go for it start looking for another job right now, while the reference will be glowing :)

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index680i and the Wii:

Not worth buying at all - 17/6/07
I am pretty wealthy... I am going to Laybuy the console tomozz :D - 23/4/08
Ill be picking up a Nintendo Wii console tomorrow - 17/7/08

As of this post he owns no Wii.

Sturmgeist 
3/8/08 1:26:57 PM
Titan

I'd stick it in her pooper, I really would thats how I'd find out if she REALLY liked me or not.

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sponger 
3/8/08 1:34:45 PM
Immortal

Go for it. I work at the same workplace as my partner. It's good--I get to see her more. She works in a different department though.

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The Manta 
3/8/08 1:55:46 PM
Immortal

If you do it, make absolutely certain that a breakup or similar situation will be an amicable one and that you'd both be able to keep it together. Also, make sure that everything that happens stays outside the office.

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tantryl 
3/8/08 1:57:11 PM
SuperHero
Immortal


Quote by The Manta
If you do it, make absolutely certain that a breakup or similar situation will be an amicable one and that you'd both be able to keep it together.


How do you ensure that?

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index680i and the Wii:

Not worth buying at all - 17/6/07
I am pretty wealthy... I am going to Laybuy the console tomozz :D - 23/4/08
Ill be picking up a Nintendo Wii console tomorrow - 17/7/08

As of this post he owns no Wii.

Skull 
3/8/08 2:17:21 PM
Champion

Why would he need to look for another job

I worked in the same unit in the Army as my other half and I was a superior rank to her.
And the ADF makes a big deal about fraternisation at the work place, we had no dramas.

Just treat work as work and your relationship as outside work.
It's when you start carrying on at work is when it would be a problem, if you are not mature enough to keep that line separate, then that is when it will become an issue

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tantryl 
3/8/08 2:21:07 PM
SuperHero
Immortal


Quote by Skull
Why would he need to look for another job

I worked in the same unit in the Army as my other half and I was a superior rank to her.
And the ADF makes a big deal about fraternisation at the work place, we had no dramas.

Just treat work as work and your relationship as outside work.
It's when you start carrying on at work is when it would be a problem, if you are not mature enough to keep that line separate, then that is when it will become an issue



And how do you know your opposite will treat it the same way?

Look, my first comment was tongue in cheek, but there is a distinct possibility it'll end badly in both the relationship and career.

I was just bringing it to his attention.

Obviously neither scenario is set in stone.

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index680i and the Wii:

Not worth buying at all - 17/6/07
I am pretty wealthy... I am going to Laybuy the console tomozz :D - 23/4/08
Ill be picking up a Nintendo Wii console tomorrow - 17/7/08

As of this post he owns no Wii.

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